Our daily lives are full of boring routine. The same uninteresting thoughts roam through our minds to create an all too predictable future. But if we just stand still for a moment and look at the world from a more … Read More
Author Archives: Polyamory Dating
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The complete beginner’s guide to polyamorous relationships: First part
The basis of polyamory is the love of human beings. Polyamory is love between people, which usually includes intimate relations. Introduction First and foremost, polyamory is a worldview: the realization that you’re allowed to feel: to love yourself and others, … Read More
Discovering my desire for two
I met him in London, during a swimming class at the gym. At first glance he seemed like a regular guy, someone I wouldn’t have talked to if the instructor hadn’t asked us to team up with a partner. He … Read More
We started talking about polyamory and…
When we started talking about polyamory, I noticed your interest. You listened intently and asked some intriguing questions. After a while you stopped me with a ‘but,’ saying it simply could not work because people are jealous and possessive, that … Read More
We got married!
Real life after marriage. Look closely at this line, on your mobile phone or computer screen. Can you see the pixels? Pixels used to be larger and easily visible. It’s amazing how much technology has advanced over the past few … Read More
The monogamous wedding: the day you’ll want to forget
Even before I knew what polyamory or any other type of non-monogamous relationship was, I was invited to many weddings. Fairly quickly I understood the general idea: You receive a stylish invitation in the mail, to which you become obligated … Read More
One for life
Imagine the government makes it a law that once you purchase your first house, you must live in it all your life. Not only are you prohibited from changing residence, but you also have to sleep at your own home … Read More
How do I tell my children I’m polyamorous?
Children are naturally curious and open to learning new ideas without prejudice. They think freely without the social restrictions imposed on us as adults. Love is not limited to one person. Children instinctively get this, as they love both their … Read More
Why do polyamorous relationship actually enable you to find “the one”?
Because we have a time limit! In your twenties Even prior to marriage, when you are in a monogamous relationship with your partner, you do not look for other partners. Several years will pass until you discover that your current … Read More
Does “the one” exist?
“Sure!”, Hollywood movie producers will tell you. Obviously, movies that show monogamous love touch viewers, and that’s why sells. Love wins. You have a warm feeling in your heart, No doubt. But in reality, there is not only one person … Read More