When we started talking about polyamory, I noticed your interest. You listened intently and asked some intriguing questions. After a while you stopped me with a ‘but,’ saying it simply could not work because people are jealous and possessive, that … Read More
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The complete beginner’s guide to polyamorous relationships: First part
The basis of polyamory is the love of human beings. Polyamory is love between people, which usually includes intimate relations. Introduction First and foremost, polyamory is a worldview: the realization that you’re allowed to feel: to love yourself and others, … Read More

Discovering my desire for two
I met him in London, during a swimming class at the gym. At first glance he seemed like a regular guy, someone I wouldn’t have talked to if the instructor hadn’t asked us to team up with a partner. He … Read More

We got married!
Real life after marriage. Look closely at this line, on your mobile phone or computer screen. Can you see the pixels? Pixels used to be larger and easily visible. It’s amazing how much technology has advanced over the past few … Read More

The monogamous wedding: the day you’ll want to forget
Even before I knew what polyamory or any other type of non-monogamous relationship was, I was invited to many weddings. Fairly quickly I understood the general idea: You receive a stylish invitation in the mail, to which you become obligated … Read More

One for life
Imagine the government makes it a law that once you purchase your first house, you must live in it all your life. Not only are you prohibited from changing residence, but you also have to sleep at your own home … Read More

How do I tell my children I’m polyamorous?
Children are naturally curious and open to learning new ideas without prejudice. They think freely without the social restrictions imposed on us as adults. Love is not limited to one person. Children instinctively get this, as they love both their … Read More

Why do polyamorous relationship actually enable you to find “the one”?
Because we have a time limit! In your twenties Even prior to marriage, when you are in a monogamous relationship with your partner, you do not look for other partners. Several years will pass until you discover that your current … Read More

Does “the one” exist?
“Sure!”, Hollywood movie producers will tell you. Obviously, movies that show monogamous love touch viewers, and that’s why sells. Love wins. You have a warm feeling in your heart, No doubt. But in reality, there is not only one person … Read More

Why do men and women cheat?
There is a basic thing worth learning about love and its ramifications on relationships, which also helps to understand why many people cheat on their loved ones in couple relationships. 1. Sexual stimulation: the desire for sexual satisfaction, lust. 2. … Read More

Help! My partner might fall in love with another person
What should I do? Encourage him! Yes, exactly that. Encourage him and support him, even though it seems that you are the one needing support. Remember that you are now a type of security, a framework for his life, because … Read More

The power of polyamory
❤ Polyamory draws its strength from the genetic makeup and character traits of human beings. We are born with the ability to love our parents, our siblings and all our family, and it is only logical and natural that we … Read More

The dark side of monogamy
How many couples do you know whose relationships are terrible, but they do not “cheat” on each other? Is this ideal love? Do you live or want to live with a person you no longer love but are forced to … Read More

Should tell people that I am polyamorous on the first date?
When you are on a date, assume that the other party has a monogamous view. Should you share with him that you are polyamorous? My answer is unequivocal: definitely not! The moment you declare that you are able to love … Read More

The complete beginner’s guide to polyamorous relationships: Second part
If this is your first time reading this guide, please read the first part before continuing. We receive a lot of queries from visitors. The most common one is how to begin. In this part of the guide we’ll guide … Read More

How to respond to criticism of the polyamorous way of life
With time you will discover that most people have no idea whatsoever what polyamory is, and some assume by mistake that it means polygamy. Unfortunately, even when you explain to them for the first time what polyamory is, they will … Read More

Polyamory: Frequently Asked Questions
What is polyamory? ❤ Polyamory is a non-platonic relationship with more than one partner. This isn’t a case of multiple sexual partners, but a multitude of romantic love interests. Polyamory isn’t swinging, which focuses entirely on sex. Even if you … Read More

Your freedom starts here!
Our daily lives are full of boring routine. The same uninteresting thoughts roam through our minds to create an all too predictable future. But if we just stand still for a moment and look at the world from a more … Read More